Karena manusia memiliki rasio maka ia bisa menjadi poros alam. Jangan mau dikalahkan oleh keadaan. Bermimpi dan berjuang seterusnya, selamanya!

And the Magic Comes...

Time may become your friend but sometimes it also turns into your monster. Time is a path to spend our life. And yes, I need it as my friend rather than do battle as enemy.

Well, ada banyak fase yang terlewat sudah. Kata para sahabat, perjuangan ini bisa dijadikan inspirasi. Inspirasi?? No..no..no...jangan jadikan ini sebagai inspirasi. Aku pikir lebih banyak contoh yang jauh lebih oke dan inspiratif di luar sana. Don't take mine.

Orang bijak mengatakan, hidup adalah perjuangan. Boleh banget lantang say AMIN for this, cause I did those battles. Perlahan-lahan memang ada buah dari perjuangan. Tapi harus digarisbawahi, jangan lupakan pahit getirnya perjuangan dibalik ranumnya buah yang didapat. Ini yang seringkali tersingkirkan dari pikiran orang-orang ketika melihat sekeranjang buah-buahan yang dipanggul seseorang di depannya.

Oke, saatnya menyambung cerita yang sempat terputus untuk sekian lama (lamaaa banget). Jadi, setelah aku disibukkan dengan soal menyoal rumah, something happened. My dad permitted me to get married. How grateful I was!!! mungkin ini perjuangan yg paling berat selama ini, diantara daftar perjuangan yang ada. It was like something huge falls into you and your hand could not hold it. Everything was shortly prepared. I had 3 months only to do preparation. God, you're so kind.

We got married on a beautiful Sunday, May 18th, 2014. Ikrar di hadapan Tuhan itu dilafazkan di RumahNYA. Dihadapan ayah tercinta, penghulu dan para saksi juga undangan,,,,he made it, fluently. hmm...seperti ada satu masa dimana semuanya berhenti, membeku, hanya menyisakan suara detak jantung yang menjadi sedikit lebih cepat, suara ayah, dan dia. Numb! Lalu...everything went to normal. Suara-suara "alhamdulillah", "sah", dan doa membawaku kembali. And finally, someone owns me, and I own him. I can put Mrs before my name. and I got my Marriage Certificate...Alhamdulillah....

I cannot hide my happiness. My friends hug me, I wasn't crying, i guess my tears went away. It has turned into happiness. Just our happiness. I do believe that ijab qabul moment is magical, and yes it was. That was the most magical, sacred and beautiful day in my life. They said, thousands of angels will attend and pray for the bridal couple. Bring God's bless for those who witness the sacred moment. And I whispered millions prays to Him. Begging His bless for us, for our new family. Praise to Allah....

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